And, above all, Auteri emphasizes, “You always have that power to say ‘no’ when you want to,” and so do the other attendees who “aren’t solely there to fulfill your sexual fantasies.”Ģ. Getting consent before each and every sex act is crucial. While the term 'sex party' might make you think of a wild, disorganized orgy, that doesn’t mean that every partygoer intends on having sex with every attendee. 1 rule is consent, as it should be in every sexual situation. The guests get real about what goes down at these events and reveal the top things you need to know before you RSVP to a play party.ġ.
Jess O’Reilly and Burning Man veteran Aly*. On the Cosmo Happy Hour podcast, social media editor Elisa Benson digs deeper into the mysterious world of sex parties with senior sex and relationships editor Ali Drucker, comedian Kate Willett, writer Steph Auteri, relationship expert Dr.